In class, we read about multiphrenia, the presentation of the self in different ways according to the situation. I decided to do a small ethnographic study to see how my friend from home, Laura, presents herself on facebook as opposed to how she presents herself to me and to people that she has just met.
I have noticed that Laura is very shy around people that she doesn’t know well, and I expected her to present herself this way on the internet since she would not know who is looking at her profile. I would say that Laura is a person who values privacy and is not quick to open up to strangers. I was surprised to find that she presented herself on facebook much closer to the way she presents herself to me. She is very open about her likes and dislikes in movies and music when she usually is embarrassed to tell people that she doesn’t know well what she likes.
Many of her facebook profile pictures and albums are of her making faces or acting silly. When Laura meets someone for the first time, she is not usually this open to show her silly side. Laura presents more of her “true self” on facebook than she does when meeting strangers. We have read that since the blogger/internet user can’t see the audience and doesn’t know who is reading what they are putting online, they are free to be more themselves. I think this is certainly true of my friend.
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